And this right here is why women don’t hit on men in the U.S. If we take any agency, responsibility or ownership over our sexual and romantic lives, we’re often accused of being sluts, “rambunctious and rachet” or of being “emasculating.”

A great many men just aren’t very physically or emotionally safe to be around anymore and we can’t tell the good from the bad till they say shit like this, or worse. This is why so many US women are giving up on men or switching sides.