If you’re making your argument based upon fantasy material, then very few of us stand any chance of dating ever, male or female. But people don’t date based upon their fantasy. They date based upon chemistry and compatibility, and often looks come after other important traits like shared interests, kindness, honesty and integrity.

Nobody wants to date a lazy slob who doesn’t take care of themselves, but those of us who don’t fit the fantasy body type still successfully date, marry and live happily together every day—dad bods, mom bods, and all.