It’s YOUR truth, not THE truth. What is true, however, is that past results are not indicative of future outcomes. Particularly if you change the game. Pun intended
My community is FULL of average men who date and hook up regularly with average women like myself. There is no dating dilemma out here in the real world. But you actually have to go to some dating mixers, singles meet ups, singles hobby groups, sex-positive workshops, and things like that and actually use your charisma and friendliness to meet nice women *where they actually want to meet you.*
If you argue for your limitations, they’re yours to have. Enjoy your truth. Or, you know, change things.