My ex has no shortage of attractive women on his arm, regularly. He is polyamorous and has three girlfriends currently, and arranges several weekly play dates with new women every month. Only during COVID did he find his bed temporarily empty. He has MAD GAME! He is confident, sexy, funny, interesting, and more importantly, INTERESTED in the woman he's with. He can make anyone laugh and is a great conversationalist with men and women alike. People just like him (and we are still friends) because he's a good man. Oh, he's also 5'9", has a dad bod, is bald, lives in a studio apartment, and makes 50K a year.

For those in the back: It's. Not. About. Superficial. Characteristics. The minority of people using dating apps notwithstanding, most women in real life would take charisma, confidence and character over height and looks, any day.