Romance is not the only path to a peaceful retirement. Living with best friends is viable too. But if you want romance, you gotta know where to look—and it is NOT online. I’m 53 and a successful business owner with a wide choice of suitors who like me as I am. I only date in my professional and hobby circles, or people well vetted by my successful friends. There are lots of men who have their lives together, or at least are not at all intimidated by women who do.