When I stepped down from Executive Director to raise my child, no less than THREE of my colleagues called me personally to tell me I was “setting women back” by doing so. I eventually moved to a smaller town where I could find other women as friends who also wanted to stay home, because the parks in my hometown were populated entirely by nannies who saw me as a spy and would have nothing to do with me or my child. Obviously ymmv, but in my world, LOTS of women get ridiculed, ostracized and go unsupported for leaving their careers to stay at home with their babies.